It is again that time of year when our thoughts turn to the holidays and often to making special family moments and to giving. We live in an amazing community where there is rarely a weekend that goes by when there isn't a fundraiser for something - we recently stocked the shelves with Trick-or-Treat for Friends In Service Helping, now we can buy pie baked by our favorite chefs; then, there are the turkey drives and turkey dinners offered by many community organizations.This article provides some tips to get the most out of your holiday giving and some thoughts to …